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Getting Off The Wheel Of Want and Not Want...
Giving up my wants and not wants in life was difficult at first. There was a big part of me holding on to the idea that I had some magical power to control and manipulate the outcome of my life, including everything and everyone in it. I was in the metaphorical hamster wheel, sprinting to the point of exhaustion and getting nowhere.
It took faithfully leaning into a mediation practice and discovering the power of the Axiogenics® Self-Leadership 1-2-3 program and my thinking assets (click here to learn yours) to surrender to the objective truth that I could not control anything but my conscious thoughts. Letting go of what I thought I wanted and putting more energy into living wholeheartedly, valuegenically, and harmoniously became the new focus.
An empowering realization came over me when I understood that while I could not control life, I still had the power to create and influence outcomes within it. The trick was that the outcomes had to generate “net value,” more commonly known as win-win scenarios. I was thinking win-lose before – no wonder everything felt so challenging. I was thinking and operating “self-centrically” within a world that had no reason to submit to how I wanted things to go.
Valuegenic Self-Leadership: The purposeful practice of engaging one’s best ways of thinking to generate greater net value in any and all circumstances that matter.
Creating net value is what being a Valuegenic Self-Leader is all about—consciously making choices and taking action that simultaneously elevates the quality of life for yourself and others. It is a way of being and the answer to overcoming any challenge, no matter how daunting. The Central Question of life, love, and leadership guides a Valuegenic Self-Leader:
What choice can I make and action can I take, in this moment, to create the greatest net value?
I am on a mission to positively influence the world by providing the tools and illuminating the path for those ready to commit to becoming a Valuegenic Self-Leader. If you are one of those people, click below to get started.